Saturday Afternoon Ponderable

"It is fantasy to believe that people can disappoint you. The only thing people can do is what they can do.
 
They may say they can do something else. They may want to do something else, particularly if that something else will please someone they hold in high regard. We go merrily along with people, believing they will do what they say, even when their track record, demonstrated inability, or exhibited lack of interest tells us otherwise.
 
In the end, we say they disappointed us.
 
No. We are disappointed that we put our faith in this person despite our better judgment.
 
People always show you who they are."

--Iyanla Vanzant